Make Mariadb / Mysql the default database instance instead of requiring -database flag

I would recommend to use postgresql if You want to follow tutorials, because there are some differences with mysql. Almost all tutorials I saw use it.

like ordering, or search case sensitivity, or extensions (citext, postgis etc).

I have often used mysql with Rails, but once I had to use windows functions. I don’t know if it is supported by mysql now, but 5 years ago it was not.

It’s always possible to switch later.